![]() | Every man has his own method of dealing with things and when a diagnosis of testicular cancer rolls his way, his coping mechanisms may be put to the test. There are often all these feelings... |
Every man has his own method of dealing with things and when a diagnosis of testicular cancer rolls his way, his coping mechanisms may be put to the test. There are often all these feelings swirling around and it might take a while to bring your emotions and how you deal with the diagnosis back on an even keel.
Being scared is quite normal and worrying about your family and health is too. Looking to the future will likely make you anxious and you will probably feel like you are no longer in control of your life. There is no shame in feeling these things but eventually you will have to create a plan to deal with your testicular cancer diagnosis. Developing a plan to help you cope with these swirling emotions and fears is the best medicine for seeing you through to a cure.
1. Arm yourself with information – The more information you get, the more empowered you will feel. By knowing exactly what types of testicular cancer there are as well as your treatment options, you will feel better prepared to make life altering decisions. Also, it is important to write down the questions you have so that you have them to ask at your doctor’s appointments. In addition, use the resources available to you such as materials from the American Cancer Society as well as the National Cancer Institute.
2. Practice diligent about your health – Hopefully, you have made healthy choices even before your testicular cancer diagnosis. If not, it is the perfect time to start. Every single thing you do every day can impact your health. Therefore, you have to be diligent and make the right choices when it comes to diet and nutrition, exercise and other lifestyle choices like quitting smoking or drinking.
Get rid of any unnecessary stress in your life so that your energies can be applied toward combating the cancer and getting well. Choose healthy foods like whole grains, fruits, vegetables and low fat dairy products. Get plenty of sleep and rest to get you through your day. Incorporate exercise but be sure to ask the doctor what would be appropriate during your treatment.
3. Maintain ties with your loved ones – The first instinct for men may be to hide from their fears and diagnosis of testicular cancer. This usually involves some distance from loved ones like family and friends. The fact is you need all the love and support you can get. Your family and friends are concerned about you and want to help. Be accepting of their gestures, whether it is the offer of a home cooked meal or transportation for errands. By expressing your fears to them and being accepting of their help, your relationships will actually grow closer.
4. Touch base with others who are in the same situation – Sometimes, no matter how well meaning family and friends are, you just need to talk to someone who has “been there, done that” in regards to testicular cancer. Search online for community bulletin boards and forums. Talk with the local Cancer Society in your area about possible support groups or even hotlines you can call as needed.