![]() | One of the hands down most challenging situations any new kinship caregiver in the US faces is the one that deals with their own penned up frustrations, feelings of anger, and of course despair.... |
One of the hands down most challenging situations any new kinship caregiver in the US faces is the one that deals with their own penned up frustrations, feelings of anger, and of course despair. Kinship caregivers love the patient for whom they care; perhaps it is a child, a parent, a close relative, or even a relative by marriage who has come to mean a lot more than just an extended family member. When this relationship which initially started out entirely differently suddenly shifts in power and responsibility to such an extent that the patient’s health, overall wellbeing and even life is depending solely on the caregiver, frustration is certain to set in sooner rather than later.
Aggravating this penned up frustration for US caregivers is the sheer volume of red tape that seems to surround each and every interaction the patient may be facing with a physician, a governmental agency, and sometimes even with commercial institutions that have little compassion for the ailing individual. In addition, considering that peers who may have never been in the position of kinship care giving before do not hesitate adding pressure to the caregiver for missed appointments and a seeming unwillingness to commit to schedule changes, and the landscape is ripe for a blowup.
Finally, good advice from outsiders is never far away, and some of the suggestions given are so outlandish and insensitive that it is a wonder kinship caregivers are not more frequently in the news for blowing up. Sadly, when these frustrated US caregivers do make the news, it is usually while being arrested for abuse or neglect of the very patient with whose care they were entrusted. Although it is simple to appear horrified at the tales that are told on the evening news, there is precious little that could have been done about it – until now. Respite care is coming to the rescue for frustrated US caregivers and it is making a huge difference.
Respite care comes to the rescue when the kinship caregiver needs to get out of the house because her child cries and it is the last straw on an already carefully maintained fa