![]() | As you know, hospice care is associated with end of life care that is indicated when the odds of surviving the cancer your love done is suffering from no longer appears to be a viable... |
As you know, hospice care is associated with end of life care that is indicated when the odds of surviving the cancer your love done is suffering from no longer appears to be a viable option. While fighting is always possible, the odds of survival are so minimal that the actual treatments may actually impair the quality of life your loved one is experiencing. On the other hand, hospice care is not always a death sentence and there have been plenty of individuals who made it through six months of hospice care only to still be alive and kicking and showing no signs of relapsing.
What makes hospice care a double edged sword is the fact that hope for a miracle and the acquiescent acceptance of fate are warring within you and your loved one and you, who will continue on with life, need to learn to prepare yourself for the worst, even as you are still hoping and praying for a miracle. To this end, long term cancer care with hospice and respite care is the perfect vehicle for accomplishing this balance.
While it is not possible to put on a happy face when your loved one is likely to die, getting ready to deal with end of life issues and also being strong for your loved one are crucial components in helping him die with dignity. Respite care in many ways must be coupled with hospice care so as to help the survivors to prepare for what lies ahead when the loved one is no longer with them. This might require you to gradually remove yourself from the day to day care and begin to once again pick up the threads of your own life which you most likely neglected so as to be there for your loved one. While this is admirable, remember that in the meantime you are neglecting yourself and your other loved ones who are also counting on you.
Dying with dignity is what long term cancer care with hospice care is all about; living on with dignity and hope is what respite care aspect of the hospice experience is all about. When you check with Medicare or private insurance, you will find that the respite care provided during hospice is almost always very generous with respect to the time allotment and the reasoning is all too clear: the goal of living on without adverse psychological, psychosomatic, or also physiological problems depends in large part to making the transition into a life without cancer care.
This may be achieved via counseling, one on one session scheduling, and also support group meetings. To attend such meetings, time is required and this time can only be managed with the help of a respite care worker who takes over when you need to get out. Respite care also helps you to refocus and – for lack of a better term – put on the hopeful and loving mien for your loved one and not force your despair and sadness on him. Instead, you may be reinforcing his faith and understanding that all the steps he has taken will indeed leave you well provided for and ready to face life – alone.